The Why of It…

Before I continue on with the how, I just realized that it might be good to discuss the why.

Confession:  I do not love The Great Outdoors.  I mean, I love the beauty of it.  I love waking up in the cool morning and stomping around in the woods.  But I do not love bugs, or extreme temperatures, or sweating.  Or bleeding.  I do not love questionable facilities.  I do not love being coated in a veneer of grime.  I do not love my children’s dirty fingernails.

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You see this? Stuff of Nightmares 

There is at least one moment during every camping trip when I wonder why… in the hell… we keep doing this.  There is at least one moment during every trip when I leave my children in the care of my husband and I go wherever they are not.  Sometimes that means checking Facebook while hiding in the questionable facilities.  And I worry… obsessively.  I worry about heatstroke, Big Foot, West Nile, ring worm, flash floods and our proximity to a reasonably priced hotel.  I also idly wonder, on at least five or six occasions, if I brought everyone enough underwear.

But…

Camping is a space with fewer distractions.  It is being unbusy and still.  It is waiting.  It is rocks and sticks.  It is shallow pools and placid lakes.  It is collecting seashells and watching the sun go down.  It is unexpected torrential down pours, and holding this while your spouse does that.  It is the ‘Two Man Lift Cooler’, and realizing that the person you married is wonderfully resourceful.  It is realizing that the person you married is kind to strangers… and to you.  It is flashlight lit walks and the magic of fire flies.  It is holding hands.  It is watching your children make friends with anyone, and finding out that they are smarter than you ever knew.  It is finding out that you are smarter than you ever knew, and braver too.  It is conquering your fear of shorts, but not your fear of frogs.  It is laughing till you fall in love with your whole family all over again.  It is fireside heart to hearts. It is seeing the forest for the trees and realizing just how splendid they are.  It is feeling the rain instead of getting wet.  It is gazing at all of the stars… and showing them to your children… because the world can be so beautiful if we let it.

They need to know that and you need to remember.

It is slowing down and making memories.  It is knowing that they won’t be little forever.

Now is all you have and it is so worth having.

Go camping, my friends.  Go camping.

 

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Finding a Campsite…

Control over your campsite selection varies from property to property.  Some campgrounds allow you to select your site when you book… which is second on the awesome chain.  Some let you drive around and select your own site, which is numero uno on the awesome chain.  Other campgrounds assign you a site when you arrive.  It is not perfect, but it is also not often problematic.  But let’s break this whole thing down…

First:  If you want to plug in your radio or coffee pot, you will need to reserve site that has 20160722_091730water and electric (30 Amp W/E).  Primitive sites are not for you, honey.  Do not be seduced by the low priced allure.  You’ll need to charge your cellphone, inflate your mattress, use a hair dryer… or a big screen television.  Whatever.  I told you, this is the no-judgement zone.

Second: If you can book your own site ahead of time, resist the temptation to be right next to the bathroom.  I know, it sounds so enticing… having the loo right there for midnight skips.  However, remember that part of the human condition is the need to pee.  Everyone needs to.  Day and night.  Day…. and night.  It gets old quickly and diminishes your family’s privacy.  Opt for something a few sites away.  The walk will still be quick, but you won’t have to deal with as much foot traffic from other campers.

Third: If you get to pick your site, watch out for the following…

  1. Standing water: Puddles mean your tent could end up in one if it rains.  Puddles also attract mosquitoes… and children.
  2. Massively uneven sites: Slanted sites make pitching tents and setting up tables a colossal pain in the neck.
  3. Sand – Now, this is a matter of personal preference, I admit.  I hate sand.  It sticks to everything, it gets tracked everywhere, especially into sleeping bags.  Hate. it.
  4. Proximity to other sites:  Again, this is a personal preference situation. I like being able to mill around without worrying about being in someone else’s space.  Also… my kids are nosy and loud.  I prefer to keep all that goodness to myself.campsite
  5. Shade: This is vital in the summer.
  6. Proximity to activities:  Similar to the bathroom, this is a foot traffic situation.  If you are in a campground that caters to kids, then being right by the pool means hearing screams all day.  If you have an infant (or husband) that needs an afternoon nap, that might be less than ideal.  If you’re going to be at the pool screaming it up… then… rock on!

Fourth: Take your time.  Taaaaaake…. yooooour…..tiiiime.  There is absolutely nothing worse than getting your tent up and realizing that the site you are on is not going to work.  And then being stuck with it.  If you selected your site online or get assigned one on arrival that does not work for you, speak up -before- you begin unpacking.  If you get to select your own site, take your time and drive around. Be deliberate.  You’ll be glad that you did.

 

How Do I Pick A Campground?

This is where I am starting our little tutorial because this, above all else, can make or break your entire camping experience.  I am sure that makes sense, but I am saying it anyway.  Be very deliberate about choosing your campground, not all things are equal under the sun.  I have done a lot of trial and error on this front, so let me save you some time…

Be Honest With Yourself Grizzly

Take a moment and really think about your family.  Would you describe your outdoor style as ‘Choking Out Grizzlies with Our Bare Hands’ or ‘OMG WHAT WAS THAT NOISE?!’.  If you are the former, I… I can’t help you, but if you are the later, read on!

My Advice: Stick to campgrounds that are a little more novice friendly like the Yogi Bear Franchise or the KOAs.  Sure, they are a bit more expensive, but they are usually in well traveled areas, have more amenities and activities.   A bonus for the unseasoned or skittish camper is that they are more heavily populated during high season, which gave me a real sense of security in the early days.  If Michael Myers popped out of the woods, he’d have to stumble over a lot of tents before getting to mine.  Another win for the skittish?  The pathways and streets are fairly well lit at night.  Lastly, these places usually have more recreational campers, so the etiquette is a bit more relaxed.

 

How Far?

Remember that driving to your campground is not the same as driving to a vacation spot.  You have to set up camp once you get where you are going, so arriving utterly wrung out from the trip is not the best idea.

My Advice:  Starting out we stayed within a 90 minute travel window.  It was long enough to feel like we were going somewhere, but short enough that we had not lost the love by the time we got there.  You know your family -way- better than I do, so use your best judgement on that front.  But… don’t feel bad about staying close to home your first time out.  When we were planning our first camping trip, I told my husband that I reserved the right to drive home if things went south.

Reviews Are Your Bestie

Seriously, reviews are the best thing that ever happened to the unseasoned camper.  Ever.  Want to know the status of the bathrooms? Read the reviews.  Want to know if the camp host is nice? Reviews.  Not sure if the activities will be fun for your family?  Reviews.  Surely you get the point by now.

My Advice:  RV Park Reviews is my go-to.  Yes, they discuss things that pertain to the use of  travel trailers/ RVs, but there are usually a lot of comments like the size and shape of the sites and distance from civilization.  There are also a few sites out there that list the best campgrounds in your area.  Take the time to read them over, it will make a difference.

 

Consider the Season

Different campgrounds are best at different times of year.  When you are reading over the websites or the reviews, pay close attention to the terrain as well as the seasonal amenities.

My Advice: Forest destinations are perfect for summer as they provide a natural barrier from the sun, which makes a huge difference in your mid-afternoon comfort level.  However, these same destinations are less ideal in the fall because (we found out the hard way) you are showered by nuts.  An acorn on the hood of your car sounds like a small explosion… no joke.  Also, wooded sites make for cooler, darker spring and fall days… which can make for a gloomy camping trip.  Lastly, for some campgrounds summer is their bread and butter.  After labor day they shut everything down which means a boring trip if your family enjoys activity driven locations.

 

Take your time and research your campground but don’t get overwhelmed by the process.  Most are pretty well managed and welcoming, but feeling confident about your destination will alleviate some of the stress that comes with a new adventure.  It also makes sure you don’t end up with a 1970’s bath house.

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Let’s Go Camping!

My family camps.  Regularly.  We talk about it. Often. We have friends that talk back.  The word ‘crazy’ gets thrown around a lot, and here is why…

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Seriously. Kylo Ren.

We have:

A Mid-western dad

A mom with big hair

A daughter who wanders

A daughter with extreme leadership skills

A daughter who wants to be Kylo Ren

A daughter who is still kinda new

A neurotic dog

If you weren’t keeping score that is two adults, four daughters (under the age of 10) and a dog against The Great Outdoors.  And we like it.  I get how that seems equal parts unbalanced and absurd, I really do.  But we like to move… we like to see things, we like to do stuff.  Look, hotels get 20160206_144741pricey and our kids are so noisy… but campsites?  Ahh, campsites are cheap, and if you play your cards right…the kids can do their kid thing without disturbing anyone…sometimes not even you (that last part was a lie, they’ll probably disturb you cause… kids).

For all of you out there that want to camp but don’t know where to start?  This blog series is for you.  For all of you out there who want to camp but don’t think you’re the type? This blog series is for you.  We are not rugged, outdoorsy people with spring water in our veins and sunsets in our souls.  My husband is a gamer and I’m terrified of frogs.  We build fires with lighter fluid, pack a coffee maker, and clean bathrooms are a must.  A -must-.  This is the shame free zone, friends.  No judgement here.

My goal is to keep these posts short and pictureful (I know you have things to do).  I will also be doing reviews of the places we go to help get you where you’re going.  If you have questions? Ask.  If there is a topic you want us to cover, or something you want us to try, let me know.  We’re learning to camp the hard way, so you don’t have to.  Just promise me one thing… promise me that you will stop telling yourself you can’t do this…. and LET’S GO CAMPING!

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Dear Starfish Thrower: Stay Graceful

Dear Starfish Thower,

You stood in my foyer on the last day I saw you, handed me a little starfish and told me a story.  This story.  Only you related it in your way; rushed, a little clumsy, and full of ‘whatevers’.   It was beautiful and  I would have had it no other way.  At the end of your tale you looked at me and said “I just want to remind you that the little things matter.  I know motherhood seems impossible sometimes, and that you can not possibly do it all but the little things add up, and they are important.”  You told me about how amazing my children are, and that I was doing a great job.  And you probably did not know, but you were also breaking my heart into a thousand pieces…. reminding me right there on the spot why I had spent countless hours praying that God would see fit to keep you here.

You are an incredible friend, and I love you.  I should have told you that in my foyer.

When my heart was aching, when my head was spinning, when my soul was dry, you reminded me just how refreshing God’s love is.  You helped toss me back into the waters that made me new again.  It was not one large thing, it was a thousand little acts of faithfulness, it was a thousand little moments of grace.  It was a hug on the horrible day you did not know I was having.  It was trusting me enough to allow me to pray away your hurts in return, to cry with you.  It was a quiet reminder that I could never run too far, I could never be too broken, and that already my life was overflowing with blessings.  Blessings from a God who had never left me, even when I tried to my hardest to break away.

James says…

19My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back, 20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.

If I am never able to tell you anything of substance again, please hear this…. you have saved a starfish.  James would be proud.  May I be blessed with the opportunity to pay it forward.

And everyone reading this?
You can not possibly do it all.
Know that the little things matter.
They add up.
They are important.

Your little acts of grace and faithfulness cost you nothing, but to someone else they might be everything.  And that is a wonderful thing.

Thank you, Starfish Thrower.
I love you.  I’m grateful to you.  I miss you every day.

Stay Graceful,

Mama Lovie

Dinner Time: One Pan Roasted Chicken and Kale

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In case you are wondering, there is a handful of rainbow chard on top of this kale.

I would love to romanticize my meal planning.  I would love to write an entire post about how I have these perfect ideas already carved out in my insanely sexy, foodie mind and it all comes together flawlessly.  I would love to tell you about how I produce plates daily that make papas want to be me, and mamas want to marry me….wait….oh whatever.  The bottom line is… meal planning with Mama Lovie is not exciting…at all.  It goes something like this….

“Okay, dinner.  Well…I have chicken…and I have to get rid of this kale pretty soon.  Oh…and spring onion.”
And then I throw it all into a pan, stick it in the oven, and wait to see what happens.  Hot right?  Shut up, I know it.
Most of it turns out pretty well, but there are occasional misses, and those are typically so bad that my family makes me vow never to try it again.  Never.  The following recipe was born of ‘Experiment!’ and ended with satisfied tummies, so I figured I would share (and by ‘I figured’ I mean someone asked me for the recipe).

One Pan Roasted Chicken and Kale

Ingredients:
Whole Chicken (3 pounds or so)
Kale – 1 Bunch
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Garlic – 1 clove – Crushed
Olive oil – A few tablespoons
White Vinegar or Lemon Juice
Sea Salt and Fresh Cracked Black Pepper

1. Preheat your oven to 375 degrees. Give your kale a good wash then *rough chop into ribbons about an inch to two inches wide.
2. Place greens in a 9×13 glass pan and toss with a couple tablespoons of olive oil, a few pinches of salt, pepper, and a couple tablespoons of lemon juice or vinegar.  Red pepper flakes would be an awesome addition here as well, but I had to keep mine kid friendly. Humbug.
3. Slice spring onions and crushed garlic then sprinkle over top.
4. Rub the chicken with olive oil and sprinkle liberally with salt and pepper.  Honestly, I do it right over the 20140622_165814kale because I’m lazy like that.
5. Pour a bit of water into the corner of the pan… just enough to cover the bottom.  If you skip this step you will end up with crispy kale which is not a bad thing just not what we are going for.  Be careful not to put too much water, or it will boil the kale the entire time which is not what we are going for either.  Confused yet? Good.  Basically you should see water at the very bottom of the dish, but not enough to climb up the sides.
6. Cover the pan with foil and put it in the oven.  Mine cooked for an hour and fifteen minutes.  Check yours after an 45 minutes for doneness (if you’re new to this whole chicken roasting thing, use a thermometer, your family will thank you).  I typically take the foil off after 45 minutes to an hour so the whole thing can brown beautifully.  Be sure you poke around to make sure the kale is softening nicely.
7. Feed it to your family (or yourself), pretend like it was really hard and bask in their admiration.  I usually serve this with roasted sweet potatoes, but…you know…do you.

*When I say ‘rough chop’ I mean it.  Nothing in this recipe needs a precision cut.  Also, avoid chopping anything too small.  It will be baking for over an hour in some cases and if the kale is too thin it will mush on you.  No one needs that.  Don’t freak out, though.  Unless you’re julienning it up, you should be fine.

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I was so hungry I forgot to take a picture of the finished product. Now it is -really- finished.

Feel free to use chicken pieces as well, but be sure to adjust the cooking time and add a bit more water.  Chicken legs take about 45 minutes.

What Mama Does: P-P-P-Pickles!

Welcome to your pickle empowerment post.  Repeat after Mama Lovie….20140607_152711

“I can make pickles.”

Say it again.

Believe it.  Own it.  You will thank me later.

If you are asking yourself ‘Why?’, obviously you have never enjoyed the sublimely sour, puckery bliss of a homemade pickle.  As with everything homemade, it blows a store bought pickle out of the water.  Not only because they taste better, but also because you get that splendid flavor without (Soapbox Alert!) a bazillion chemical preservatives and dyes.  Well, maybe not quite a bazillion, but still.  Need another reason?   (Brace yourself, it’s really shallow.) Pulling out a jar of homemade pickles is one of the best ways to win friends and influence people.

“What?  You made those?  Shut up!”

The actual dialogue may vary but you get the picture.  In this day of convenience food overload, making a pickle at home is mind boggling.  Take care, however, because they are also addictive.  Recently I had a friend eat nearly a quart as he stood in my kitchen chatting.  A quart.  Later he told me that if my house gets broken into, all my pickles are missing but the television is fine?  It was him.  True story.

Onward!

There are dozens of ways to make pickles.  Just google it one day, but -after- you read this post or it will stress paralyze you.  I go with the 24 hour fridge pickle because I hate waiting and I love eating.  I make a bunch, stick them in the fridge, open as needed.  Fast, easy, amazing results, and one brine to rule them all.  (See what I did there? No? Okay.)  The method I am going to detail below can and has been used for various veggies and maybe some eggs (definitely eggs).  The two that find the most traction in our house are cukes and peppers but go nuts.  Also, once you have cleared an entire jar in an embarrassingly short amount of time, use the brine for vinaigrettes.  It will change your life.

I found this brine on Food In Jars, the blog I credit for beginning my love affair with canning, jamming and pickling.  Marissa has inventive, beautiful recipes and an abundance of information on how not to kill yourself with botulism (don’t freak out, it’s actually really hard).  When you’re done here, give her a look.  WHEN YOU ARE DONE HERE…I mean it.

Picklin’

Ingredients:
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White Vinegar (If you are not canning them, feel free to experiment with different vinegars.  I keep it basic.)
Salt (I use pickling, sea salt or kosher will all work.  Iodized salt will make your brine cloudy)
Various Aromatics – These are the things you will use to give your pickles flavor.  Experiment!
I usually use…
Garlic
Spring Onion
Pepper Flakes
Peppercorns
Pickling Spice
Fresh peppers like jalapenos

Now you may ask yourself…’Self, why doesn’t Mama Lovie have any measurements?’.  Good question.  The amount depends on how many pickles you are making.  I have found that three pickling cucumbers (yes, you need to use pickling cucumbers) typically fill a pint jar, so keep that in mind when you are picking your cukes.  Also, I generally stick with white vinegar in my brine and switch up the flavorings depending on the jar.  It allows me to make a few different kinds of pickles (spicy, garlicy, plain, citrus) all at the same time.  You’ll get it in a second…

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1 Cup Water
1 Cup Vinegar
1 Tablespoon Salt

Size up or down depending on how many jars you need to fill.  I usually make a half a cup of brine for every pint of pickles, but always make a little bit more because it’s simply not an exact science.  Sometimes you will need a bit more, sometimes less.  I rarely make the perfect amount, but let me tell you…it is better to have a little too much than not enough.  Trust me, I’ve done the research.

1) Measure your ingredients, put them into a non-aluminum (super important!!) pot, and let it come to a boil.  Tea pots are awesome for this but make sure it is a sturdy one.  I bought a cheap deal from Ikea and the vinegar did terrible things to her.  Terrible
2) Cut veggies to fit your jars.  I am a fan of the fat coin (they are at the top of the jar in the picture below), but my family requests spears…which you will also see.  20140607_150709
3) Add your aromatics to the bottom of the jar.  A clove of garlic, a sliver of spring onion, a teaspoon or two of pickling spice, a curl of lemon rind.  There is no right amount and no right answer.  I prefer to go light on the pickling spice, and heavier on the garlic/onion/pepper flakes.  Give the garlic a good smash before tossing it in the jar so it releases its goodness more readily. (Also, do not freak out if your garlic turns blue when it hits the brine.  It’s fine.)
4) Add veggies to the jars.  Get as much in a jar as you feel comfortable with, but you want them to hold each other in place once you put the brine in.
5) Cover veggies with brine.  Make sure all of your veggies are covered and then put a top on it.  I like to turn them upside down if I am using a canning lid because the heat seals them, and it helps mix the spices into the brine.
6) When the jars are at room temperature, slip them into the fridge.20140607_151039

The last step is absolutely the hardest.
Wait for 24 hours.  Wait….seriously.  24 hours at least.  If you are super disciplined, wait 48 hours.  The longer they sit, the more delicious they will be.  I only know this because I always make multiple jars and can not manage to eat them all in one day.  I always open one after 24 hours though.  Always.

Always.  I’m ridiculous.

That’s it!  Seriously.  Now go…pickle some stuff!  I have to go hide mine from thieves.

If you have any questions, my comments are always open.

Dear Papa Lovie: So, Five Years….

Dear Papa Lovie,

Five years ago today, we stood in front of a court house and promised to love each other forever.  Truthfully, even with a failed marriage under my belt, it sounded so easy at the time.  Be a good wife to a good husband.  For the rest of my life.  Easy, right?

Well…

How were we to know that less than a month later we would be facing down the heartache of a miscarriage….

Followed a year later by the birth of a child….

Followed swiftly by the return of parent’s illness…

Followed swiftly by the passing of same parent…

Followed by college graduation…

Followed by the move to a new home….

Followed by the birth of another child….

And in between?  A thousand laughs, a thousand tears, major adjustments, minor aches, many pains, old things breaking, new things arriving.  Hobbies, more hobbies, new lifestyles, unexpected changes, homeschooling, struggles, joys, consequences, learning…more learning…and so many conversations.  And food.  Some you like, some…well…stick that under the learning category.

Oh, and the realization that you were the best decision I have ever made.  In case I was too busy birthing children and baking bread to tell you.  You have made every moment of the last five years better.  Even when it seemed like you were making it worse, you were making it better.  Even the times I may have said you were making it worse, you were making it better.   I am proud to be your wife, I am proud to be your friend, I am proud to parent at your side.  I am proud that I chose such a strong, earnest, smart, hilarious, and loving man to show my daughters how men should be…how men should love…how men should father.

Even at your worst, you are mine forever.  Even at my worst, I am yours forever.

I look forward to forever with you, Papa Lovie.  Hopefully the next five years will be a little smoother but even if they are not, I know that I could not ask for a better person to weather the storms with.  I know I could not ask for a steadier hand to hold the umbrella which keeps the rain off our heads.

Did that last part make sense?  Meh.  I am yours forever.  My failed prose is yours forever, too.

What Mama Does: Produce Box Follow Up

Before I dive into what produce boxes have done for the way we eat, let me disclose a few important details.

1) My kids are little rabbits.  Though we have picky issues of our own, for the most part my children will readily eat vegetables.  Lots of vegetables.  I understand that this is not the case in all families, but it is the case in ours.

2) I enjoy cooking.  I really do.  Like…really.  That being said, I have three kids, so as much as I would love spending my entire day in the kitchen, well…I have three kids.  That means our meals, just like in most families, have to get to the table with the most amount of nutrition in the least amount of time, with the fewest amount of dishes.  So no, I do not toil in the kitchen all day, and even though we use very little processed food I still get most of my meals to the table in less than an hour.

3) I work for The Farm Table delivering their veggies to other families.  Does that sway my opinion?  No.  It does, however, make getting veggies on a budget easier with minimal effort.  If you can deliver or otherwise find employment with a local produce delivery, I recommend it…highly.
Highly.

On with it!Produce Box

The question I typically get is:

“But do you actually save money?”

The answer?  Yes.  But not quite the way most people anticipate.  So let me break it down….

1) We -Are- Spending More Money On Produce –  Because we are purchasing more produce.  That is an important distinction to make.  We are spending more on produce because there is more produce coming into our house than before we were using the boxes.  In fact, at the time I am writing this post, my refrigerator is safely 80% produce.  That also means our meal plates end up being at -least- 60% produce, but most days the percentage is a bit larger.  The exception to this is breakfast, which tends to be our protein rich meal.

2) We Spend -Less- Money on Junkfood/Processed Food – I am not sure if you have this problem but…I impulse buy nonsense when I go to the grocery store.  I also fill my basket with things we simply do not need…even when I make a really detailed grocery list, and if Papa Lovie is with me?  Forget it.  Since the produce boxes are keeping our fridge stocked, I go to the store once, possibly twice a month to fill up on the same staples:

  • Triscuits
  • Bananas (Baby Lovie hearts her bananas)
  • Almond Milk (Princess Lovie does not drink cow’s milk)
  • Meat (Whatever is on sale to add to our freezer stash)
  • Cheese (Blocks, because there is cellulose in the shredded stuff)
  • Flax
  • Chia
  • Bulk Bags of Frozen Fruits and Veggies (every three months or so, but it is cheaper to buy from the grocery store than Costco)

Every two or three months I go to Costco for the following….

  • Oils (Coconut and Avocado)
  • Whole Wheat Pasta
  • Dried Fruit
  • Oats
  • Ritz Crackers (Because Papa Lovie can not live without the devil’s snack food)
  • Diet Pepsi (I vehemently oppose this as often as possible but… the key to a good marriage is compromise, right?)
  • Bacon
  • Organic snacks (for grab and go purposes)
  • Sausage (All Natural)
  • Chicken Nuggets (All Natural)
  • Annie’s Mac and Cheese
  • Pepper Cheese (Because life is better with hot pepper cheese)
  • Honey
  • 100% Maple Syrup
  • Vinegar
  • Baking Soda
  • Coffee

I go to the natural store every blue moon for…

  • Wheat Berries (I mill wheat..that is a whole other post)
  • Liquid Aminos
  • Unfiltered Olive Oil
  • Real Salt
  • Local Raw Honey (I use this on uncooked food items only.  Cooking it is a waste of good honey and good money)
  • Apple Cider Vinegar
  • Unsweetened Coconut Flakes
  • Arrowroot Powder
  • Raw Cocao
  • Baking Powder

So, with the exception of trips for event related items (potlucks, birthday parties, holidays),  I have reduced my grocery store trips from an average of six to eight a month down to three.  Three opportunities to impulse buy, though with fewer tests of my will power, I find it much easier not to indulge.  Fewer indulgences means fewer wasted dollars.

3) We Place More Value on our Veg – at least I do.  Spending more for better produce means I am less inclined to waste it.  Less inclined to order a pizza because we really need to eat the salad greens which are sitting in our fridge.  Know what this means?  We eat out less.  Which means we save money -and- put less garbage into our bodies.  Win-win.  Now, does this take a bit of discipline?  Sure, but when you throw out a bag of farm fresh kale because you chose to take the kiddoes to Chick-Fil-A, it does something to you.  Or at least…it does something for me.  I am even more diligent about taking lunches when we go out rather than buying them.  Have we stopped eating out completely?  No.  We still enjoy a weekend dinner, lunch out with a friend, or Chinese when mom has had a crazy-crazy busy day.  But it is nowhere near what it once was.

In short, produce boxes have helped us streamline our food budget.  We are spending less on garbage and making less waste, which has left us more money to spend on good quality food that makes our bellies happy.  The net change in my actual budget?  None.  I am actually spending nothing more to get ethically grown produce from local sources.  Is that crazy, or what?

How Has it Changed Things Overall?

I asked Papa Lovie if he has noticed a difference since we started ordering boxes.  His answer? Yes.  I asked him if it was a change for the better and he said ‘Well, I’ve noticed a difference’.  After a bit of prodding he told me that he would feel it was for the better if we were getting more food he was accustomed to.  That is something to keep in mind.  If you do not have adventurous eaters in your household, the more traditional CSA style produce boxes may not be for you.  I have enjoyed the challenge of newer foods, and have also liked the built in opportunity to introduce my children to vegetables I likely would not have bought or cooked otherwise.  Furthermore, delivery day is like Christmas at my house.  I allow the girls to open the box and they get really excited about taking out everything inside.  They ask a lot of questions and it builds anticipation, which makes them more willing to try something new.  We also spend time looking up recipes for these unfamiliars and the girls get to help make decisions about dinner.  It is thrilling for them.  (Less for me, I hate having kids in my kitchen… but that is a post for another day)

It has completely reversed the way I meal plan, and the way I shop.  I no longer plan what we will eat based on my stable of recipes, I make dinners based on what is readily available…which means our meals are now produce driven.  It takes the vegetables from an after thought to a main feature of the meal, so we put less emphasis on starches and processed elements.  We also eat what we have…week after week and make the most of what is already in the house.  Cooking what we have in the house also keeps me out of the inevitable dinner rut because I rarely cook the same thing twice.

So…that’s the long story….

The short story is…
Better Veg
No Net Budget Change
Less Junkfood
Less Processed Food
Less Impulse Buying
Less Burnout
Less Waste
Happy Mama
Happy Kids
Lukewarm Papa
Nourished Family

Questions?  I love questions!  Please feel free to ask!